Much better window sill now!
After painting, wallpapering...
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Much better window sill now!
After painting, wallpapering...
(without the flash)
Once everybody got home Friday, Joey chauffered us to Mary's house in La Crescenta. We went out to a Thai restaurant in Montrose called Zen with Steve, Edme and Mary which was very good. Then we spent the night there and got up early Saturday morning to go see Pirates of the Carribean 3. Ressa and Melody stayed home with Mary and went on a mile walk with her and the pomeranian, Toby. Steve's realtor who sold his home for him rents out the theater every year for a Saturday 8:30am showing of the latest & greatest movie out. It's free for all the former customers and four guests. They give out complimentary Krispy Kreme donuts. This is the 2nd year he has invited us. Good movie, but extremely violent. Remember to stay through all the credits because the clues to the next episode are in a scene shown at the very end after the 7 minutes of credits.
We returned home Saturday and spent the evening with Ashley and Mackenzie, since they were "kicked out" due to Jim's invitation to his buddies to come join him for a guy's night out watching some fight at his place. Ashley didn't want anything to do with it. Ended up most of the invitees stood him up or shunned him now that he's slowly but surely, becoming more of the family man type. That's a good sign, I said to Ashley. So she went back home earlier than planned. Mackenzie is such a cutie. She's just leaning forward kissin' everybody all the time. She walks, likes to throw balls and keys and tries to start up a "I-drop-it-you-pick-it-up" game with anybody. She has four teeth on top and two teeth on bottom. She's 13 months old and such a sweetie.
Before leaving church, I was faced with a dilemma as Austin was standing in the parking lot with two buddies of his both begging him to spend the night at their houses tonight. The parents were standing nearby with everyone waiting for my response....very uncomfortable. I knew one of the boys was going places with his family tomorrow, so I suggested Austin stay the night at HIS house, but could spend time with the other boy tomorrow during the day. Yay, everybody was settled with that compromise. Then we found out the mother was sick at the house he was going to stay over at, so that put everything into a turmoil all over again.
While they ate, talked, and ate, played video games, and ate some more, Mark and I watched a couple movies I recorded, "A Time to Kill" and "Pandemic." The girls just love staying a little bit back from the action, but still close enough to all the boys to barely be "in on it." They gave us 101 excuses before finally accepting that they had to come up to bed and leave the action-packed environment created by boys aged 17, 16, 2-13 yr. olds, and a 12 yr. old.
PS. Don't tell anybody! Hahaha :D
We have Barbie, Dad, Austin (in the distance) and Mike all digging in to the feast.
They all seemed to have a great time. He's been going out to see her every month and they spend a day together. Now I hear she wants to come spend three weeks with us after school gets out in June.
I know how the good Lord works and maybe I'm just getting sarcastic in my old age but it brings the words to mind...."I can see where this is going." You take the possibility of a move to Utah, combined with much bigger house, with good environment to raise kids in and.... Well, like I said, "I can see where this is going." To have strength and energy equal to the demands of the day is all I ask for.
If we go, we agree we like Bountiful the best. My bishop and his wife are in their early 60s and lived their all their lives except for the last 20 years down here. She told me the city snow plows go up and down all neighborhood and major streets in the city continuously between 2am and 6am every day that there is snow falling. She said you just have to have your "snow tires" put on your cars when the snow starts falling. "Between the plows and the snow tires you can do it."
GET A LOAD OF THIS! When it says "Davis, UT" that means Davis County School District which includes Bountiful. (Taken from the Manhattan Institute for Policy Research report of 2006):
That does it! We're oughta here! Hahaha!
Next thing I know, they have moved the frame, boxsprings and matteress from being perpendicular to the other twin to being parallel, right up against the other bed as if to form a king-sized bed. I was shocked and amazed that they could do it. It's hard for me to moved that all around, let alone six and seven year olds.
And naturally, THAT MEANT WAR!!!
These guys needed some help, so one of the dads/Young Men leader (on left) came over and started giving these kids some coaching.
Here's Austin with Randy playing with the younger set. Austin will often ask me if he can go somewhere or do something with boys younger than him and always add, "Mom, do you realize how much these guys need me to be a role model for them?" His enthusiasm and continual joking around attracts so many kids to him. I'm glad he feels the responsibility to be a good example, at the same time.
Another side note:
My statement went something like this:That day we spent hours there being called in, then out and over again. Being a juvenile court proceeding, you can only be in there to say your peace, then you have to exit as to not hear anything else. I had been told back in March that I would be asked to give a "Victim Impact Statement." On Monday, they said it was optional before sentencing, but I told her I had a statement I wanted to give. "Well ok then," she said. When it came my time I went in and both families of the boys were all there dressed up nice, brothers and sisters included. The mothers faces were stained with tears as they continued sobbing off and on.
Overall, I felt very good for having been there and especially the way it ended. We were all so loving toward one another afterward (prosecutor, defense, victims family, perpetrator's family). It was a great experience, like something you would ONLY see on The Andy Griffith Show :DEarlier during my son's testimony one boy appeared drained and beaten emotionally. The other boy appeared a little mad and resentful at getting caught. By the time I finished, both boys were crying and wiping tears away quickly. The defense attorneys came out and shook hands with me down the hall. Both mothers ran over and apologized and we hugged. One mother through her crying, begged us both to "please don't hate black people over this. Please don't be prejudice the rest of your life because of this. I even work for the courts and it's so embarrassing to me." We assured her we wouldn't judge people because of their actions. (It sort of gives the 2nd Article of Faith a deeper meaning....We believe that men will be punished for their own sins and not for Adam's trangressions. This makes me see how we too should not "punish" (pre-judge) an entire race for the actions of some.....interesting).
Here's Mark with his homemade "SPUDZOOKA!"
A couple years ago we attended the Ball family reunion up in Salt Lake City, UT and spent several days up there. By the end, the boys were begging Mark to move. Joey loved all the classy girls up there; and going into restaurants at night where every bar was empty! Austin pointed out how fun it was to be somewhere in public and with all the Church members around us who share our faith, we'd hear people talking about Scouts, ward parties, primary, etc. Even some Monday night "Family Home Evening" ideas were tossed out over the loud speaker in the mall. It was fun.When we returned, Mark went to a man 3-rungs up the ladder of bosses and asked about any job opportunities out of the bank up in Salt Lake. This particular man is over all the Risk Management credit offices in San Leandro, Boise, Salt Lake, Tempe, Seattle, and Diamond Bar. He said he's make a mental note of it. Well, it seems he has not forgotten and has molded the hierarchy here in Diamond Bar around that request of Mark's. The boss position immediately over Mark came open a month ago and most people thought Mark was the obvious choice....but it was not to be. They brought back a former manager who had moved to Minneso1ta, hated it, and wanted to come back. He will start next week. When Mark was told the news that he didn't have the Diamond Bar position, he was told that there would be management opportunities opening up out-of-state that would be perfectly suited to him.
Today, a manager out of Las Vegas who oversees the Salt Lake office called Mark to tell him a position there is available. It opens up June 1st and they want Mark to interview for it. It would be a lateral move straight across the board to the same thing he does now, but the difference is that we could have a lot more home and property for the same mortgage we pay now, or have a home similiar to what we have now with more cash flow freed up. We've always said it would be advantageous to live near BYU for our kids to go there. The thought of getting to finish up my bachelor's degree at BYU....just 20 years late...would be exciting. And to teach there someday, even better! I'm just rambling. Of course, I'd miss all the family, but as long as we're all logged in to our blogs, it feels like we're close. Time will tell....
That's a real important (but sometimes difficult) thing to get across to the junior-high-aged child. They struggle to understand the law of averages and may let a homework assignment go here or there and wind up with 0% on them. The problem comes when they don't realize that they need about nine 100% papers to make up for those two missed ones, to bring the grade average to an A or 90%. It's so much easier just to tackle it on a daily basis and be relieved at the end.... Just some more interesting facts to know and forget....
I sure love my children. They are the little lights that brighten up my world on a daily basis--keep my laughing, and keep me young (at heart, anyway). I'm sure I'll have to put all four of their cards up here by tomorrow.
Then the day was crowned with a terrific picnic in Seal Beach near Barbie. We had chicken salad croissants, chips, drinks, and pies including a homemade banana-cream by Barbie. There was mom, dad, Grammy, Sal, Mike, Danny, Barbie, Jim, and all of my family. We were greatly entertained by the constant, informal "emcee job" provided by Mike and Danny as they pitched baseballs to Joey and Austin, threw frisbees to Joey, Austin, Mark, Mom, and Barbie. It was classic Stoddart entertainment, unrehearsed and performed by Mike and Danny with all the precision of a comedy duo. Can't wait to do it again! Hope all you ladies out there had a wonderful day!